Tuesday, December 16, 2014

A Week of Self Love Starts Today!

Self Love Day #1

What a great time to give yourself a little self love!  We're coming into the holidays HOT HOT HOT!  I can't believe how fast they snuck up on me this year.  I’m also heading off to Winter Solstice Sadhana Celebration, so I wanted to get these to you to work on while I’m gone and working on myself.  Disclaimer: I meant for these to post while I was at Solstice, but technology didn't work with me. Oh well!  😀

As promised, over the next seven days, I'm going to share some self love teachings from Marin Bach-Antonson, who you can learn more about here.  This beautiful woman came to me through Kim Salter who facilitates the Nashville Sister Circle I talked about last week.  A lot of this is copied directly from Marin's emails, so I'm not going to take any credit for it other than sharing it with you and adding my little comments here and there about my own experience!  So, are you ready to dive right in??

GETTING STARTED:  SUGGESTIONS FOR EVERYDAY

These are a few things you can do every day that will start you on the path of self love!

1. Get a package of post-it notes or some paper and tape, and put reminder notes all around your house...especially on your mirrors and even in your car!  I even made the background and lock screen on my phone a photo of my post-it note.  The notes should simply say, "I love you!"  This is your mantra this week.  Say it as often as you possibly can.  Think of yourself as an empty vase that needs filled, and you fill that vase a little more every time you say, "I love you.”  It might be awkward at first but stick with it.  "I love you" is powerful medicine!!  JUST doing this one thing could potentially change your life!  And if you've been doing the mirror work that I discussed a couple of weeks ago, you're already a step ahead of the game here!

2. Each day, share at least 3 THINGS that you love about yourself.  You can post them here anonymously in the comments, share with some trusted friends or family, or if you're brave, even post it on your Facebook page!  Here is a sample post:

This week I'm sparking a self-love revolution and I want to invite you to join me!  I'm going to be posting 3 things per day that I love about myself because I believe that if one person does it we give permission for others to do the same.  Will you join me?  What are three things you love about yourself?  Write them here and post this on your page.  Here are my three things:

I love my naturally wavy auburn hair.

I love my curves.

I love my voice.

3. Begin your day with love, not technology.  I use my phone for my alarm clock, so it's really easy for me to grab it to turn off the alarm and then start playing on email or Facebook.  Instead, remind yourself of your worthiness before getting out of bed. Breathe in love and breathe out love.  Enfold yourself in light.  Saturate your being in love.  Most people start their day with a low level of dread.  Consciously make a choice to shift this mindset for these 7 days, and hopefully for a lifetime!

4. Are you brave enough to ditch your scale for the week?  Do it!  Put it in the garage, the basement or perhaps the trash.  Weight is one of the biggest "bear traps" when it comes to self-love.  We are going to radically practice acceptance this week and for many of us, the scale is a sure fire spiral into negative patterned thinking. Get rid of it.  If you really want to you can bring it back next Monday.  I haven’t owned a scale in a little over two years, and it’s amazing how much happier I am with my body!


JUMPING IN:  DAY ONE

Ok, so those were the daily rituals.  Here is the invitation for day one:

Treat yourself like a dear, dear friend and go out and buy yourself a little treasure today.  You can choose whatever budget you'd like but I want to suggest something small like $5-10 dollars.

What wonderful present will choose?  A bar of dark chocolate, a bunch of tulips, a new nail polish color, a bar of fancy soap?  Buy something you normally wouldn't!

If you don't have the time to pick up an item, then write yourself a short, sweet note.

Must do:  Have fun turning attention on yourself!

Enjoy this week!

Much love,

Marin and Emily Rose

Check out Marin's website here: https://www.facebook.com/Riseupgoddess

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